All About Valerie!

Wednesday, January 31, 2007

Clapping, Standing, Waving!

Oh yes, and teeth! Over the last couple of weeks, Val has learned the art of clapping, she stands unassisted for a few seconds at a time and her love of waving has gone to new heights. She'll wave at everything, if she's in the mood, wave wave wave, to her fans, to people who she thinks should be her fans, to her beloved boobies.

Two weeks ago, we had no teeth and I was happily breastfeeding. Today, there are 6 teeth and I'm coming to a different place about the breastfeeding. Each little white tooth is a reminder that our little girl is growing up a little more every day.

Along with that, we're quickly moving on from baby food to solid foods. She's got a great love for white foods, rice, god the rice it is sooo great in her world, so much so that she even turned down the boob in favor of rice. To that, I say, go Val! She also loves bread and peaches and pears and bananas. Meat, not so much, not just yet.

She'd rather her feed herself than be fed, making a grand mess in the process.

Being her mom just gets cooler every day.

Tuesday, January 16, 2007

8 Months

Oh, Val. Today you are 8 months old. That's the better part of a whole year already.

You've been quite busy this last month, in many ways busier than any other month since your arrival. On 12/23, I was wrapping presents while you played on the floor near me. Then I blinked and you were crawling across the floor to get the remote. Crawling!

The very next day you decided it was high time to pull yourself up on anything that looks like it will hold you. With great glee, you hoist yourself up, then smack the shit out of the table, the wall, the cardboard box. You've also expanded this skill to include standing, unassisted, for a few seconds at a time, though you don't really seem to notice this.

Food. God, how you love solid foods. You're not too fond of jarred baby foods, though you'll tolerate them if you're hungry enough. Peas are okay in small doses, same goes for green beans and most vegetables. You have almost no patience for those 'dinners' with a meat and a veggie together. But you'll eat anything, anything, if it involves fruit.

This is where I wonder if you're really my child. But I celebrate your love of fruits just the same. You'll eat jarred peaches, pears, apples, bananas, anything from the fruit family. But you get soooo happy when we give you actual pears or peaches to feed yourself.

Boy, do you know how to gum.

But gumming's not all you're doing these days. No, last week you got 3 teeth in a damn hurry. Your first? On the bottom left, followed by two toothlets on top. I know the arrival of those teeth had to have hurt but so far you're bearing the pain like a trooper.

I realized this morning that if today is 8 months for you, yesterday was 8 months ago for the hardest day of my life, the day I was in labor with you. That I didn't remember about that anniversary until afterwards is a really great thing.

But back to you. Your hobbies include clapping, arm flapping and flirting with strangers. You also enjoy shopping:

We take you everywhere. You go to the rink, to restaurants, to stores, on trips. Your sleep at night is still not your best event. If we're lucky, we might all get 5 hours in a row. I can't remember what sleeping for longer feels like. But I assure you, whenever that day comes I'll be grateful for it's return. We're working towards giving you something to hold on to at night so maybe you can soothe yourself back to sleep now and then. It worked for a little while last night, anyway.

You still love the boob. More than ever. You know the sign for milk, when we make that sign you go crazy, flapping around to get to the source. So far you're being very well behaved with your teeth in that department so there will be no hurried weaning just yet.

Though I've begun dreaming of that day when you are weaned. I'm going to get myself a 'Ween' t-shirt and wear it once you've moved on from the boob. Though I'm sure I'll miss parts of that time we share, I'll also be happy to see it end. It'll be high time you and I both move on in that department.

You remain a happy girl. People comment on how happy you are, because I guess babies are supposed to cry all the time? I dunno, I only know you. And I know that we do everything we can to keep you happy, interested and paying attention in your world.

2 years and 4 months until you start hockey lessons. I can't wait. God, I hope you like it.